Let’s talk about one of life’s most tender and confusing moments the loss of someone we care about. Whether it’s a close family member, a lifelong friend or someone you didn’t know well but still want to honor, thinking about what to do (and what to bring) can be overwhelming. And somehow, in the middle of all those emotions, there’s this one question that a lot of people find themselves googling “What kind of flowers do you bring to a funeral?”

In this blog post we will dive in to the appropriate flowers to give for condolences because showing up with empathy matters, and sometimes, the right blooms can say what we can’t.

FLOWERS FOR CONDOLENCES

Lilies

Lilies are perhaps the most iconic funeral flower, and with good reason. Their strong, sweet fragrance and white petals make them a timeless symbol of peace and purity. In many religious traditions, especially Christianity, white lilies are associated with the soul’s return to a state of innocence.

For those sending flowers to honor someone who lived a graceful, loving life, or for someone deeply spiritual, lilies send a clear and powerful message of reverence and peace.

Roses

Roses are far more than a romantic gesture, they’re deeply emotional and versatile. Different colors offer different layers of meaning:

• Red roses express deep love and enduring respect. They’re especially fitting for honoring a spouse, parent, or dear friend.
• White roses speak to purity, humility, and innocence, much like lilies. They’re often included in more traditional or elegant arrangements.
• Yellow roses symbolize strong friendship and warmth. They’re a gentle way to say, “I’m here for you,” especially when grieving a close friend.
• Pink roses can represent gratitude and admiration they are perfect for remembering someone who inspired you.

A mix of rose colors can paint a beautiful emotional picture, honoring the full spectrum of your relationship with the person who has passed.

Chrysanthemums

In many European and Asian cultures, chrysanthemums (or “mums”) are almost exclusively associated with death and mourning. In fact, in countries like Japan, Korea, and much of Eastern Europe, they are only brought to funerals or gravesites—so their presence carries deep meaning.

In the West, chrysanthemums are also appreciated for their fullness, resilience, and longevity. They represent loyalty, support, and the idea of life continuing even in the face of loss. White chrysanthemums, in particular, are a strong symbol of honor and truth.

Carnations

Carnations are a humble, heartfelt choice that often appear in funeral sprays and wreaths. Their soft ruffled petals and sweet fragrance are symbols of everlasting love and admiration.

• White carnations are associated with innocence and pure love.
• Pink carnations are said to have originated from the Virgin Mary’s tears, making them a symbol of a mother’s eternal love.
• Red carnations suggest deep affection and respect.

They also last longer than many other flowers, making them ideal for arrangements meant to stay fresh for multiple days of remembrance.

Orchids

If you’re looking for something more modern or minimalist, orchids are a stunning and meaningful option. Their graceful, long-lasting blooms are often associated with eternal love, beauty, and peace.

White and light pink orchids are especially suited for sympathy arrangements, symbolizing compassion, strength, and delicate grace. Orchids also work well in potted arrangements, offering a longer-lasting tribute for the family to cherish.

Here are other types of condolence arrangements we love to create at Fresh Flowers by Olive:

Memorial Bouquets:

These are often soft, elegant, and thoughtfully arranged with gentle blooms like hydrangeas, roses, or lilies. They’re perfect for placing on a table or in a quiet space of reflection.

Custom Tributes:

Did your loved one have a favorite flower or color? We can craft a bespoke arrangement that reflects their personality, passions, or even their favorite season. A personal touch like that can be incredibly meaningful for grieving families.

Conclusion

Grief looks different for everyone but one thing is always true: being remembered matter.

Choosing flowers for a funeral or to send your condolences is a deeply personal gesture one that speaks from the heart. Whether you’re drawn to classic lilies, meaningful roses, or the quiet beauty of orchids, each bloom offers a way to honor a life and bring comfort to those grieving.

At Fresh Flowers by Olive, we’re here to help you find the arrangement that feels just right. Whether you’re looking for something simple and elegant or something more personalized, we’ll guide you with care and compassion every step of the way.